jeudi 25 juin 2015

Improve Your Relationship With Couples Counseling

By Ruthie Calderon


New couples have to make time to spend together. If they do not make time to spend time with one another then it is important to take time to see what else is going on within the relationship. Many times the relationship begins to suffer and things may need to be taken to couples counseling in Ormond FL.

Many people end up having affairs when they feel as if they are not being treated fairly in a relationship. Once the partner find out about the affair they feel hurt, shamed and any. Sometimes when the other partner finds out the other person has been cheating that partner will show signs of remorse. However, are they really sorry and will not do it again is what the cheated on partner wants to know?

Look for eye contact. Is your lady friend able to look you square in the eye when talking. If you question your girl about a specific incident that you need answers to, and she cannot look you directly in the eye when answering; then you can be sure when she respond, she is lying to you.

Take notice of your loved ones body language. Most women try to make themselves believable when they have nothing to hide. Look to see if she appears tense and not relaxed when speaking directly to you. If she is relaxed she may make hand gestures, put her hands on her hips. But if not she may fidget with her clothes, or twist her hair around. Do not trust a word that comes out her mouth.

These relationships are most likely toxic. If the person cannot get out of the relationship it could become a dangerous situation for them to be in it. Many people think that the person who has been cheated on has moved on and forgiven them. However, the person might just be sitting and waiting for a way to get even.

Couples who are feeling this way often benefit greatly going through counseling. Therapy for the individuals is about growth and exploring the way they feel the way that they do. Many find out why they are feeling a certain way, better yet they find out how they are making the other person feel with their actions.

She just might be lying if she answers a question too quickly. If she answers a serious question too quickly, a question that you know should take more time to answer, she has already planned her answer, she lying. She planned what she would say if you asked her this question. Liars always try to stay one step ahead.

Regardless of the situation people in relationships can benefit greatly from having someone talk to them. When trying to decide between couples and marriage counseling, you should simply consider what you and your partner are more comfortable with and look at the qualifications of the counselor.




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